Have you been told that before?
You make comments like: I will never like fish, I will never have kids, I will never finish school, I will never get married..... I was recently in discussions with someone who has gotten a divorce with in the past few years and has been dating someone new for a couple years now. When the "marriage" topic would get brought up, the individual would always respond "I will NEVER get married again". Fast forward.... This individual has found they are happy. The person they are in a relationship with makes them happy. AND now plans on getting remarried. Often times the word "never" is a defense mechanism. It's a way to put up an invisible wall so defeat isn't so daunting. It becomes our "out" if something doesn't work out. I didn't complete that workout program because I said "I never would" I didn't lose weight because I said "it never works" I didn't get that job because I said good things "never" happen for me. Get my point? Listen to the words coming out of your mouth? Are they hindering you or empowering you? For you my friend are Holy.Be.Youtiful!
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