Defeat is Optional.
This week my daughter mastered the monkey bars without assistance. She was beaming when she did it and was so excited to show me. We decided one night she would show me and I would record her to show Daddy. She rushed to the bars and I positioned myself with my camera to capture it all. She gave the look and she started to swing from bar to bar. She got about 3/4 across before she started to struggle. Eventually she fell. I stopped the recording and stood there to see how she would react. She started sniffling and it turned into tears. She felt defeated. She was embarrassed. She didn't want to try again. I had a great opportunity to love on her with encouragement but in that moment, it also made me realize that when we deal with our own defeat we often don't dust ourselves off and keep going. We too get embarrassed and quit. Has that happened to you? *You miss a workout. You feel defeated. *You lost your temper with your kids. You feel defeated. *You blew your clean eating with a bad meal. You feel defeated. *You are starting a new business. You feel defeated. *You had a different opinion from someone. You feel defeated. *You have to learn something new. You feel defeated. In those moments of defeat. Do NOT Quit! For you my friend are Holy Be.YOU.tiful <3
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